postpone pregnancy thoroughly really be right every pair suami-istri. but best also must considering carefully before do it. why?
many young pairs that wants to postpone formerly to has momongan. general reason, follow dra. jacinta f. rini, msi, psychology consultant from harmawan consulting, worn pair to postpone pregnancy, among others: economy/financial, career,  and way of thinking immediacy.

immediacy psikologis
immediacy and well-being psikologis vitally for pair that want has breed. this matter is necessary because husband and has heavy responsibility to be able to endure the character as parents.
follow jacinta, don't make self egoism is reason to postpone pregnancy. " must be provided by correct reason and responsible. especially, do by mother well-being, good psikis also psikologis,  and child. "

physical immediacy
besides immediacy psikologis, physical immediacy also absolute has by woman that plan pregnancy. from well-being side, during the pair doesn't has disease that need therapy for a long time, anita doesn't see reason that compel pair to postpone pregnancy.
pregnancy best postponed if there disease mengidap husband or wife, can endanger also the mother if pregnancy is carried out.
remember age!

follow conditions that must be calculated at the (time) of postpone pregnancy.
1. woman age
age correctest for pregnant 20-35. if exceed 35 year, pregnancy risk and will birth higher.
2. well-being condition
if found well-being obstacle and age stills to make possible to postponed, it is better salubrious the body condition beforehand.
3. breed factor
if husband and wife comes from little family same difficult has child, best doesn't postpone pregnancy.

Menunda kehamilan sepenuhnya memang merupakan hak setiap pasangan suami-istri. Namun sebaiknya juga harus dipertimbangkan masak-masak sebelum melakukannya. Kenapa?

Banyak pasangan muda yang ingin menunda dulu untuk punya momongan. Alasan umum, menurut Dra. Jacinta F. Rini, MSi, konsultan psikologi dari Harmawan Consulting, yang dipakai pasangan untuk menunda kehamilan, antara lain: ekonomi/financial, karier, dan kesiapan mental.

KESIAPAN PSIKOLOGIS
Kesiapan dan kesehatan psikologis amat penting bagi pasangan yang ingin memiliki keturunan. Hal ini perlu karena suami dan istri memiliki tanggung jawab yang berat untuk bisa menjalani perannya sebagai orangtua.

Menurut Jacinta, jangan jadikan egoisme diri menjadi alasan untuk menunda kehamilan. "Harus didasari oleh alasan yang tepat dan bertanggung jawab. Khususnya, lakukanlah demi kesehatan ibu, baik psikis maupun psikologis, dan anak."

KESIAPAN FISIK
Selain kesiapan psikologis, kesiapan fisik juga mutlak dimiliki oleh perempuan yang merencanakan kehamilan. Dari sisi kesehatan, selama si pasangan tidak memiliki penyakit yang memerlukan terapi dalam jangka waktu panjang, Anita tidak melihat alasan yang mengharuskan pasangan untuk menunda kehamilan.

Kehamilan sebaiknya ditunda jika ada penyakit yang diidap suami atau istri, yang bisa membahayakan kondisi janin maupun ibunya jika kehamilan dilaksanakan.

INGAT USIA!
Berikut ini kondisi-kondisi yang harus diperhitungkan pada saat menunda kehamilan.
1. Usia perempuan
Usia yang paling tepat untuk hamil adalah 20-35. Jika melebihi 35 tahun, risiko kehamilan dan kelahiran akan lebih tinggi.
2. Kondisi kesehatan
Jika terdapat kendala kesehatan dan usia masih memungkinkan untuk ditunda, ada baiknya kondisi tubuhnya disehatkan terlebih dahulu.
3. Faktor keturunan
Jika suami dan istri berasal dari keluarga kecil yang sama-sama susah memiliki anak, sebaiknya tidak menunda kehamilan.

If your new plan has not been married and have children, use simple methods to delay pregnancy. What is?
1. Condoms
Sperm out will saved condoms so they do not enter into the womb. Failure may occur. Usually because the condoms tear and leak.
2. Periodic abstinence
To avoid pregnancy, do intimate relationship only when the wife is not in the fertile period. This can be done on his wife, the couple who have regular menstrual cycles. Cooperation and understanding husband is very necessary in this case.
3. Coitus Disconnected
This may avoid pregnancy. Concepts, issued by the genitals of a ejakulation . But, it is indeed quite the satisfaction of both parties. The failure rate is quite high, 30-35 percent. This is because the husb and can not control so that the sperm are still spill at the mouth of the womb and vagina can still enter.